Frivolous

Ok, I found the word I was looking for: frivolous! I called it superficial, light, naive, childish. Then I decided it's a woman I'm talking about. A wise, warm, discrete, loving woman. And now I'll call her frivolous. A frivolous woman. Again... just for fun! ;-)
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For some time, my imagination is working on a new idea: the quintessential effortlessly stylish French Frivolous woman. Even if French women are sometimes seen like that, I say it's not that simple. There's more to it...

It's the woman that doesn't like when things are systematic. She gets bored. Shall I call her light?.. superficial?.. frivolous?... Woman.

It's that woman that ignores fashion and does her own thing. She's the one that eats butter fearlessly, takes long actual vacations and acts like she doesn't care about exercising or the harmful effects of smoking.

And no, she doesn't have to be necessarily pretty. Because beauty is beyond pretty.